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Not long after the honeymoon is over, many couples suddenly feel that they must now be serious, no nonsense people. They tend to fall into a rut of unrealistic expectations, assuming their spouses can read their minds as to what they want and need. But real life is not a romantic fairy tale and only you can create an environment that is conducive to romance. Here are some ideas to zip up your married life.Ê 1. Saying "I Love You" works. Say it as often as you want. 2. Remember, the more you give is the more you get. 3. Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire. Learn to explain your angry feelings decently. 4. Exchange gifts for no reason once in a while. 5. Go out alone at least once a month. 6. Surprise your spouse by doing something special and unexpected. 7. Never bring up issues from the past. Discuss one subject at a time. 8. Don't take each other for granted. Be generous with compliments.
